A recent trend at work has occurred. This trend is the exact opposite of what I have experienced in my life before.
I work with high school girls in a group home, providing them trauma-informed care. I chose this position because of my age and because I love the high transition years. Part of my position requires me to transport my clients (10 high school girls) around the community. We may go to doctor's appointments, social gatherings, baseball games, or the library. Although it is enjoyable taking clients out in the community (at times), I have found a new enjoyment in doing so.
Let me digress for a second. Since I was young, I have always been told I look older than I actually am. I was typically one of the tallest people in my class throughout elementary and middle school, so I attributed it to my height. However, after I stopped growing, the comments continued. In fact, when I was in high school, many people thought I was in college. Even still, when I was in college, many people assumed I was a career professional.
Back to my current position. I was hit on by a high school boy last night while taking girls to a social gathering. When one of my clients responded, "ew! She's a staff!" he didn't respond with anything but a smile and walking away.
This has happened repeatedly in my job. I took a client to the doctor's office about a month ago and the doctor wanted to see her staff member. He asked her if she could call a staff member because a friend wouldn't do. This "friend" was me. I politely told the doctor that I am a staff member and that I am six years older than the client. He stared at me for a brief moment, then nodded and proceeded with the information.
This backwards thinking is very odd to me. I haven't started looking any younger in the past three months and I sure hope I haven't started acting less mature. I honestly wish I could pinpoint why this phenomenon is happening, but until then, I will bask in the thought of people thinking I am in high school. :)
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