Dear Lady who told me that me making my boyfriend a sandwich just sent the feminist movement back to the 50's,
In return he opens my doors, pulls out my chairs, pays for my food, movie tickets AND gas, surrenders his coat when I'm cold, cuddles, buys me presents, and acts as a personal body guard whenever we're together.
Sincerely, I feel like I'm ok with that.
Before attending Capitol City, I always had the mentality that husbands are supposed to respect a professional wife who wants to work full time. That men are supposed to be home just as much as women and spend just as much time with their children. I had these thoughts because I was planning on becoming a doctor and bringing home the bacon.
But after seeing how other families raise their children, I believe I have also changed my mind on how a family should be raised. I wouldn't mind working full time until I had children, then part time once the children were born. I have no problem putting my family before my career, especially if that means spending more time with them.
I also like the idea of being a "housewife" who cooks and cleans when she is home. I don't think that makes me "old fashioned." I think it makes women show their love and appreciation for the men in their lives. Plus, like the letter above says, guys like to do things for women, so what's wrong about doing nice things in return? Nothing.
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